ONLY If
DATING
Dating without the BS. We match you on what actually matters: your values, your lifestyle, your deal-breakers. Then we get you face to face. No ghosting. No catfishing. No 47 dead-end texts.
The short version
Cut through the chase
Answer honestly
Take the “Only If you’re…” questionnaire. Values, lifestyle, the icks you won’t budge on. Minutes, not commitment.
Get a real match %
We do the math. 80% means 80%. You’ll even see why you didn’t hit 100 (yep, a deal-breaker lit up).
Meet face to face, fast
In person or over FaceTime, before the small talk goes stale. Judge the real spark up front, not after two weeks of texting.
Bring your people
Soon you’ll meet your matches at OnlyIf events, and bring your wingmen, couple friends, and chaos crew. Everyone’s invited. (Coming soon.)
Psst. Meet Melanie, your in-app guide. She’ll learn your vibe, hand you a nickname, and set up your first blind date. Coming with the app.
Why OnlyIf
Built to call BS
Your wingman, built in
OnlyIf flags your hard red flags, even on a 95% match, like the friend who tells you the truth before you waste a Saturday.
Your answers stay yours
Responses are private, full stop. They only compute a match %. Your name’s hidden too. You’re “Purple Star” until you decide otherwise.
Meet first, text never
No catfish. No ghost. No thread that dies on a Tuesday. You meet face to face up front, so attraction and personality are real.
Everyone’s invited
Not a singles-only club. Bring your friends, your married friends, your wingman who “just came for the snacks.”
No swipe, no fatigue
We don’t sell an infinite scroll of maybes. We match on what matters and stop wasting your time.
See why you matched
A match % you can actually read, and exactly which deal-breaker lit up red, before you ever say hi.
Who’s this for?
Pick your path
Singles
Find your person, matched on values and deal-breakers, not just a good selfie.
Couples
Already taken? Keep it hot. Date nights, deep questions, and things to actually do together.
Friend Zone
Here for the friends. Find your people. Zero pressure, 100% your kind of weird.
The signature move
Only If you’re honest
Every match runs on the “Only If you’re…” questionnaire. Mostly multiple choice, always with an open-minded catch-all. Religion, family, the ex situation, vices, music taste, where your passport’s been, politics, pets, food. We turn your answers into one number, your match %, and that’s all anyone else ever sees.
- Only If you’re …cool with kids (or set on none)
- Only If you’re …over your ex
- Only If you’re …a passport-stamps-or-it-didn’t-happen type
- Only If you’re …fine with my 6am gym alarm
- Only If you’re …a dog person (sorry, non-negotiable)
- Only If you’re …not going to argue politics at brunch
- Only If you’re …okay that I can’t do cilantro
- Only If you’re …open-minded (the catch-all, for the rest)
Your answers are private and only ever compute a match %. The other person never sees what you said, just the score and the nickname you’re hiding behind. Truthful in, score out.
Real questions, real answers
No BS, promise
Yes, actually. Your answers are used only to calculate a match %. Nobody sees your individual answers, and your real name stays hidden behind a nickname until you choose to share more.
You answer questions on values, lifestyle, and deal-breakers, and we turn that into a compatibility %. 80% means 80%. You’ll also see why you didn’t hit 100, like a hard deal-breaker lighting up. A wingman who’s honest even when it stings.
Nope. OnlyIf is for everyone: singles looking for their person, couples keeping it hot, and people here for great friends. Bring your crew, married friends included.
We’re in pre-launch. Join the waitlist to be first for early access, the app drop, and perks. No spam.
Coming soon: hosted and collab nights where you scan a QR at the venue and see who you’re actually compatible with in the room. Waitlisters hear first.
The waitlist and the “Only If” questionnaire are free. Full pricing comes with launch, and early-access folks hear it first.
Your future in-app guide. She’ll chat you through onboarding, give you a nickname, and help set up your first blind date. Coming with the app.
Early access
Be first in line
Answer a few quick “Only If” questions, drop your email, and you're in. Early access, first dibs on events, zero spam.
Your answers stay private and only compute your match %. Email's just so we can reach you.
Coming soon
The app is on its way.
iOS and Android are in the works. Get on the waitlist and you'll be the first to download it when it lands.
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